jumpingfish

So we’re lying on the hotel king bed clicking from one station to the next. (Is this what we’re missing by not having a TV at home!?). Trudy’s phone rings. It’s Ben. He says Colin is in town and wants to give us a call.

Colin! Holy cow. Not only did we find out at the last minute that Ben was in DC that weekend, but now we find out that my cousin’s youngest son is too. We couldn’t have planned this better if we had tried.

Here’s what I imagine happened…

Ben is in the Ohio room with the 90 other students from Oberlin and all the other Ohioans. Colin is with the Michigan room with the Kalamazoo students and all the other Michiganders. But Colin he wants to see Daniel, a friend who goes to Oberlin, so he leaves the Michigan room and walks down the hall to Ohio.

Now it just so happens that Ben and Daniel are friends. And so when Colin walks into the Ohio room, Ben sees him. I picture him standing up and shouting across a sea of chairs as Colin enters the room.

“Colin? You’re here, too!?”

We met Colin the next day in Chinatown for lunch. We ordered way too much food, and Trudy and I pushed back early, shamefully leaving much food uneaten. But you see, this was Colin. When he saw us push away, I swear I saw his eyes light up, and I know I heard him mutter something about peanut butter sandwiches. And within minutes, there was nothing left.

We talked about school. We talked about weather. We talked about the conference. And I remember so little of it, because I was just sitting there smiling, watching my cousin’s son talk.

This is so important to me. I’m the only one in my family west of the Mississippi, and we don’t get to see each other enough, and now the boys are grown up, anyway, so even if we could coordinate our schedules more often, the boys probably couldn’t make it. And so the risk of getting disconnected is so great. But here we are sitting in a tiny restaurant in Chinatown in DC eating and chatting and connecting.

It was time to go. Colin had to catch his Michigan bus. We were going to the Vietnam and Lincoln Memorials. So the three of us walked together for a while up K Street, and at 18th Street Colin turned north, and we turned south.

I turned to watch him walking away, long strides in the sun, backpack over his shoulders.

I wonder when we’ll see him again.

We were standing shoulder to shoulder in the orange line train. Trudy was behind me. A man in a suit was in front of me. He had a black nylon business case on his shoulder. It was embroidered with Deloitte. He was reading the Washington Post.

The train stopped and more people came in thru the doors. We all shuffled and moved to the back of the car. A woman now stood between me and the man. She was also in a suit and was talking on the phone with white ear buds in her ears. The man looked up at her periodically.

When she stopped talking, the man caught her eye and said, “Katherine, right?”

She smiled and nodded, and they started talking. Evidently she worked for Deloitte, too. They talked about job assignments. And they talked about their travels. And about politics at work. And when the train stopped, she said, “This is my stop,” and got off.

The man stayed on the train, and when it started moving he reached into his bag. First one compartment then another, shifting from one leg to the other as the train rocked back and forth, keeping his balance by leaning against a stainless steel pole.

He was looking for something and not finding it.

He reached into the main compartment of the bag and then into the compartments he had already searched. He took his folded up newspaper out and searched all over again, an increasingly frantic look on his face, pushing his hand into corners looking for something that clearly was not there.

A grim look came over his face, and he started checking his suit coat. First his outside pockets. Then the inside ones. Left then right and checking them all again. And now checking the bag again, now with panicked urgency.

When the train came to a stop at the next station, he lost his balance and almost fell down. The doors opened, and he rushed out onto the station platform.

This was the orange line to Vienna. I suspect he was about to go around and catch the other orange train back to New Carrollton. I hope he eventually found whatever he was looking for.

We were waiting at Dulles airport for the Metrobus. We had just dropped off a rental car and planned to take the bus to the first Metro stop and then take the Metro downtown. It was a multi-model transportation day.

A man in a suit with a suitcase walked up and asked us if this was the bus stop. We must have looked like we knew what we were doing. I joked that we hoped it was the stop, because that was what we were waiting for.  And then we introduced ourselves.

He was Mr. Rahman from Senegal. He had woken before dawn in Dakkar where a friend had driven him to the airport. Then he had flown to New York City and caught another plane to Washington, DC. His final destination was Philadelphia, but getting there was going to take some doing, yet. He had to find his way to Union Station and from there he had to catch the Amtrak to Philadelphia.

We took out a map. We showed him how he needed to take this bus to the Metro station at the end of the route. And I showed him the Metro route from there to Union Station. And we gave him our Metro map so that he might find his way.

“We can get another map,” Trudy said.

He thanked us. And soon the bus arrived, much to our collective relief.

We got off the bus at a Metro stop before Mr. Rahman’s.

“Bon fin de voyage,” I said, tapping him on the shoulder as we left.

“Ah, merci,” he said.

He had many miles to go, but in comparison to how far he had come, he was almost home.

Wait, wait! I’ve got the order of things all messed up. I need to tell you a story about our flight into DC.

No matter the order of things. You know we’re back home know, so this is not real-time, anyway. So don’t worry about the chronological order of all this. Let’s just do a bit of a rewind.

We flew Southwest (of course) to DC via—get this—Denver. Austin to DC via Denver, Colorado. On the second leg of our journey, we sat toward the back. And as we were getting settled into our seats, we looked up to see a hoard of middle school students pouring down toward the back of the plane. Of course, Trudy said. It was spring. And this was their eighth grade Washington, DC trip.

“Wait, I want to sit with you.”

“Let me sit there. Let me sit there.”

“Don’t you want to sit with me?”

“What’s wrong with that seat.”

“I have to sit all alone?”

You get the picture.

So anyway…

As we were crossing the midwest, we flew over and thru one of the many bands of storms that have been stretching southwest-to-northeast across the midsection of the country this spring. We flew into storm clouds, and I looked over at Trudy and said, “It’s going to get bumpy.”

At that point the pilot came on and had everyone sit down and fasten their seat belts. And sure enough it got bumpy, not shockingly so, but enough to startle anyone who might not have flown before. And you see, we were sitting in a plane full of 8th graders most of whom had clearly not flown before.

With each bump, the kids all yelled and squealed and exclaimed. When the plane went up, they yelled. When the plane went down, the shrieked. And this went on for some time as we made a long descent into Dulles Airport.

30 kids all yelling, “Woaaaaaaaah!”

30 kids all shrieking, “Aaaaaaaaah!”

For the most part, they were pretty good about it. Some of them even began to hold their hands up in the air as on a roller coaster. But some were having a harder time: a girl behind us was quietly sobbing as we landed, and someone in front of us got sick. I suspect none of them realized what a challenge the pilot had as she tried to bring the 737 down smoothly onto the runway: the plane hovered a long time as it flew down the runway, rolling majorly from left to right and then right to left. And then she put it down as if there wasn’t the slightest puff of breeze.

As we pulled up to the gate, all the kids stood up and crowded the aisle. We sat back and waited for them all to get off. And then we got off.

And that was the beginning of our little vacation in DC.

1. We’re Going to D.C.

“Ok Ben,” she said. “We’ll be leaving for D.C. on Saturday.”

Trudy and I and Ben had been chatting on the phone for a while: one of the rare times when we get caught up with what he’s doing up there in northern Ohio.

“You’re going to D.C., too?” he asked her. “You’re going with Dad?”

I had told him the previous week that I was going to be there for training, but I hadn’t mentioned that Trudy and I had decided to make a mini-vacation of it. So Trudy filled him in.

“I’m going to be there, too,” he said.

“This weekend!?” Trudy asked.

Fine thing. When he and I had talked, he hadn’t said a thing about it. Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

2. Matchbox

So we managed to coordinate a meet-up.

On Saturday we arrived at our hotel in Reston, VA and texted him to figure out when he and his friends would be finishing up from their youth environmental activism training conference. 9:00 he said. So we cooled our heels and did some online research and eventually texted him to let him know where to meet us. We chose Matchbox in Chinatown.

I was sitting in a little bay window in the front of Matchbox when I saw Ben and his four friends come walking down the sidewalk. They were smiling and talking and looking at each other and moving back and forth on the sidewalk like you might see in some hip ad for trendy clothes. The cool kids. Out in the evening. Out on the town. I smiled.

He looked up and saw me sitting there. And his eyes widened. And he waved at me. And he broke into a run, making for the door of the restaurant.

He broke out into a run. Leaving his friends behind. To give his dad a hug.

3. Dessert

“Thanks, Dad,” he said after we had studied the menu and ordered.

We were sitting at a big round table upstairs that the hostess had held for us for 20 minutes, because Trudy and I had shown up about 20 minutes early.

“Thanks,” he said, “for bringing us to this swanky place!”

Trudy and I looked at each other. Frankly, we probably wouldn’t know what swanky was if we saw it. We smiled.

“You’re welcome,” we said.

And then for dessert, we pulled out the chocolates that we had bought from Edibles Incredible! Desserts. Three sets of five chocolates. The Fair and Industrious Trudy handed the bags to Ben. I hope he distributed the booty as we intended.

4. Hugs

And with that, dinner was over.

We said our goodbyes on the sidewalk just outside the bay window where I had spotted them a couple hours before. It was hugs all around. Not sure what they all thought of that, but … whatever.

And then they went back from whence they had come, and we turned the other way to walk back to the car.